A common notion in Victorian times was that ‘ladies do not move’. This may well be true but only women can have intercourse. However, a man with difficulties in controlling the time of ejaculation can find that passionate movements by his woman destroy his control. On the other hand an older man or a man with a tendency to slow ejaculation or a loss of erection may benefit from his partner’s movements. A woman can move most freely in positions in which her body is free. These include positions such as the rear-entry, woman-on-top, and left-lateral. Women like to move in all kinds of ways during intercourse and movements include thrusting and rotating the pelvis so that the penis is swept around the interior of the vagina. The best way to imagine this is to think of the base of a felt-tip pen inserted into the vagina. The woman then draws circles with the tip. A woman can also contract her pelvic muscles. If this is done as the penis moves inwards and if they are released as it moves outwards, it greatly enhances the sensation for both partners.
A little practice during masturbation or during intercourse pays real dividends. A variation of this is for the penis to remain motionless in the vagina and for the woman, by repeatedly contracting and relaxing her pelvic muscles, to bring her partner, and herself, to orgasm.
In positions in which the man mainly controls the movement, he usually wants to move at a speed which corresponds to the one he uses when masturbating. Some like short, rapid movements and others slow, long ones. Women have their preferences too and a communicating couple will tell each other what they want. Quick, teasing movements at the vaginal opening without full penetration and even total withdrawal from and re-penetration of the vagina, for example, can, at the early stages of intercourse, bring some women to orgasm.
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